Should I Give My Baby A Pacifier?

Pacifiers are one of those things that some parents swear by and others never use. Every baby’s opinion of them is different too. My son loves them, but I have friends whose babies just wouldn’t take them. So how can you decide if you should give your baby a pacifier?

There are a few different factors that you should consider because there are pros and cons (and a few things I wish I would have done differently).

What’s the right age?

You may be wondering how soon is too soon to start using a pacifier. The answer is that it’s never too soon if you’re formula feeding your baby. In fact you may even want to pack one or two in your hospital bag.

If you’re planning on breast-feeding, you may want to wait a month or so.

When it comes to weaning your baby from their pacifier, there is a lot of information about what the appropriate age is. Pacifiers can help reduce the risk of SIDS until your baby is a year old, but once your baby is 6 months pacifiers can increase their risk of ear infections. Despite this, I know many parents who decided to wait until their baby was 2 or 3 years old before getting rid of their pacifiers.

Ultimately you should base your decisions for when to start and stop using a pacifier on your baby’s individual needs.

The Soothing Power

Sucking can be very soothing to babies. This means that pacifiers can come in handy in situations that make your baby uncomfortable like getting shots or taking a plane ride. They can also help sooth general fussiness and may also help your baby get to sleep more easily. This has definitely been the case with my son.

Pacifiers and SIDS

SIDS is something that I’m sure all new parents worry about as much as I do. You hear all of the horror stories, but believe it or not, a pacifier can help. A study showed that the risk of SIDS is reduced by about 90 percent when a pacifier is used during naps and bedtime. There are a few theories as to why pacifiers help, possibly helping in development or just the fact that with the pacifier in the baby can’t cover their nose and mouth with soft bedding, although no one is quite sure.

Breastfed Babies

If you are planning on breastfeeding your baby, you’ll want to wait a little longer before using a pacifier. This is something that I wish I had known when my son was born. Our first day in the hospital after he was born he did a great job latching and we were off to a good start, but he was given a pacifier on day two and after that he wouldn’t latch. Breastfeeding is much different for your baby than sucking on a pacifier is and when they are still learning to breastfeed, they can be easily confused.

Wait until your baby has the hang of breastfeeding and your milk has come in. Once you and your baby have the whole breastfeeding thing down, introducing a pacifier shouldn’t cause a problem. This is usually around one month, but your pediatrician may also make a suggestion at your 2-week check up.

What are the downsides?

  • Ear Infections – After six months old, pacifiers may increase your baby’s risk of ear infections. If you start to notice a problem with this, you may want to start weaning your baby off the paci.
  • Dental Problems – If your baby uses a pacifier for too long, it has potential to cause dental issues. This shouldn’t be an issue though until your baby is around 3 or 4 years old. Thumb sucking can cause the same types of problems though and is much more difficult to wean.
  • Breast-feeding Problems – If a pacifier is introduced too soon it can cause nipple confusion. Even if you wait until after the first month to introduce a pacifier, it could potentially cause your baby to want to stop breastfeeding sooner. This isn’t always true though because I know people whose children successfully breastfed and used a pacifier simultaneously until after their children were a year old.
  • Germs – Working in retail, I can’t tell you how many pacifiers I have seen on the floor. Depending on the age of the child, the pacifiers often go from the floor right back in their mouth again. A good solution for this can be pacifier clips. I usually clip it to my son’s clothes or his car seat so if he spits it out it can’t go far.
  • Dependence – In my opinion, the biggest potential problem with a pacifier is that your baby could become dependent on it. This means that if you lose it or forget to bring one in the diaper bag it could make for a very unhappy baby. I literally have pacifiers everywhere so I can always gram one easily if I need to.

So what’s the right choice?

Ultimately the decision to use, or not use, a pacifier is up to you and your baby to make. In my opinion, the pros far outweigh the cons and they have been a lifesaver for me and my son. Next time around I plan on waiting longer before getting started, but all of my children will have the option of using a pacifier if they want it.


Share your pacifier experiences below or let me know if you have any questions.

12 thoughts on “Should I Give My Baby A Pacifier?”

  1. Great blog and quite timely as there is a new baby in our family. When my older daughter was a baby she loved her pacifier but when she was a year old, it stayed in her crib. She could have it at nap time and bed time only. This worked great for us.
    Pacifiers are very soothing for a newborn and the new ones today come in stages for growth and oral development.
    Unfortunately, I have friends whose children sucked their thumbs for literally years, ultimately needing braces to straighten their teeth. Thumb sucking is almost an impossible habit to stop. I’ll opt for a well made pacifier any day!

    1. Let me start by saying congrats on the new baby! I love your idea of keeping the pacifier in the crib and just using it for naps and bed time.
      I was actually a thumb sucker until I was about 5 and ended up having braces for 4 years. My parents learned from their mistake with me and my younger brother had a pacifier. It’s much easier to take a pacifier away than a thumb. 

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  3. Thank you so much for sharing your valuable tips.I think If a pacifier is used when putting a baby to sleep, it’s important to find one that fits that particular baby.

  4. Pacifiers are a great source of controversy when it comes to parenting. Your advice is great.I think it’s helpful for new parents cause their ideas about children are very low. Thank you so much for this helpful blog.

  5. Thanks for sharing – this is a great post on the decision making process around pacifiers. Appreciate you taking the time to put it together!

  6. Thank you for putting this together. I love your insights about the topic. Pacifiers have some great benefits, but it’s important to consider the right age to give it to babies.

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